Monday, February 23, 2009

(Almost) Paper Pregnant

Well, we're almost officially "paper pregnant!" After a day that included a car that wouldn't start, two trips to the Secretary of State's office, and 30 minutes of copying at Staples, we have turned in our dossier to our agency! Wooo whoooo! I think that we're both feeling a little bit stunned that we're finally at this point in the process. Here's a taste of our day today ...

I was in my car to leave for work and I couldn't get it to start. Huh. It was parked in the garage and was running fine for me on Saturday. We didn't drive it on Sunday. But I couldn't get it to start for me. I could tell by the sounds that it was making that it wasn't the battery. So I went back inside and had Mark come down to listen to it. He thinks it sounds (and smells) like something with the fuel line. We had been planning to take my car to Indy today so we had to go to plan B.

Mark showered and got ready for the day and then drove me to work. I had to ask my supervisor to re-do my employment letter for our dossier because we saw an error on it yesterday. So Denise and I walked over to the Purdue Union building to have the letter notarized. Denise is also an adoptive parent and understands all the paperwork and how precise everything has to be ... I was especially glad for her good-humor and willingness to help.

Mark and I both worked until noon and then he picked me up at work to go to Indy. We went directly to the Secretary of State's office to get the last paperwork state sealed. Then we drove to our agency on the northeast side of the city. There, the assistant for the International programs went through our dossier to make sure that everything was correct. Wouldn't you know it? The first document was state sealed incorrectly! Ugh. The good news, however, was that that was the only error she found! Hooray!

So we jumped back in the car at 3:20 to get to the Secretary of State's office one last time (fingers crossed, please!) We arrived at 3:45 -- they close at 4 p.m. I dropped Mark off at the front of the building -- he made a mad dash into the building and returned at 4:00 with the corrected document. Double hooray! My Mario Andretti driving skills were put to the test today!

We drove back to the northeast side to a Staples near our agency and made the final copies we needed. We then walked to the Panera across the parking lot to grab some dinner before returning to our agency with our dossier and four copies. Here are two photos:






See all the gold seals? That's what the State Seals looks like. We learned that if we do this again, we will definitely make most of the copies before we take them to be state sealed!

We also attended our first adoption class tonight. This one was specifically about Ethiopia. It was very informative. There were about a dozen families there but only one with their referral and court date. Mark and I were pleasantly surprised to find that we're ahead of nearly all the other families in terms of our paperwork. (This isn't said competitively ... we've just gotten used to being behind!) We were also glad to meet another couple from Lafayette who are actually adopting from Rwanda and another couple from Kouts who both grew up in West Lafayette. We hope that both couples might connect to our Lafayette group.

It was very interesting to hear from the pastor of the Ethiopian congregation in Indianapolis. He was very friendly and we enjoyed listening to him talk about how other Ethiopians view adoption. He invited all of us to worship with them and we hope to attend church there sometime.

All in all, I think that our heads are spinning -- it's been a whirlwind day! Now we just wait to hear from our agency's headquarters, hoping that they don't find any problems with our dossier. They will let us know when it's on its way to Ethiopia. Stay tuned!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Taste of Ethiopia Night

On Saturday night, we hosted a "Little Taste of Ethiopia Night." Mark and I wanted to share our excitement about adopting from Ethiopia so we invited some of our family and friends to attend one of three Ethiopia nights in our home. As you all know, Mark loves to cook and experiment in the kitchen and I love to host/entertain in our home. We thought that this would be a good way to combine both of our interests while sharing some of what we've learned about Ethiopia and international adoption. Plus, we both agree that by tasting the foods of another culture, you begin to get a sense of what life is like there.

Mark is shown serving Dora Wat to our friend Christina. Luckily, Christina likes spicey foods! Christina is one of my co-workers at Purdue. You may remember her from the chocolate fountain pictures back in November.

Here is another one of my co-workers, Debbie. She is studying the Ethiopian nativity that Mark gave me for my birthday back in December. Debbie likes trying new things, too. I have wonderful co-workers! I've been very fortunate to work with fabulous and fun people at both Manchester and Purdue.

I have to admit ... it really helps to just talk about Baby Ailor and what the next year will bring. It makes the whole journey feel more real and tangible. So thank you to all who attended both in January and February. We've got one more in March and we're already looking forward to it!

Our friends Jenny and Maria made the snowy drive from North Manchester to attend on Saturday night. I think that they were glad for a 'girl's night out' and we were glad for their company! Our new friends Ben and Janet are on the other couch. We met them through the Lafayette Ethiopia adoption group and have really enjoyed getting to know them better.
Thanks again to all who attended on Saturday night! Especially to Mark's family who made the hour long drive to be here with us -- thanks for being here!




Thursday, February 19, 2009

It's here! It's here!

Finally! Our I-171H arrived today! The last piece of our dossier. Yes! We will be completing our dossier over the weekend. Basically, we need to have the I-171H notarized. Then, we will take it and a few other documents to the Secretary of State's office to be state sealed on Monday. We will find a copy shop in Indianapolis after that, make 4 copies of our entire dossier, and then turn it in to our adoption agency. We already had plans to travel to Indy on Monday for our first 'adoption class' -- this one in particular is about Ethiopia and is required before we can travel there. Hopefully, we'll be traveling in early 2010 to pick up Baby Ailor.

Mark and I have been anxiously checking the mailbox each day to see if our I-171H had arrived. It has been just over three weeks since we were fingerprinted. I got home first today and found the big envelope from Homeland Security -- I ran into the house to open it. Mark was just as excited as I was when he got home a few minutes later. Here are some photos to show you just how happy we are!




Another step completed on our journey to bring home Baby Ailor. Thank you for sharing your support and joy with us!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Back home again in Indiana


I got home late Sunday night and I agree with Mark ... I was reminded of my life pre-Mark and I'm so glad to be home with him! I really did have a good trip but I sure missed Mark. We spent the day together today, celebrating Valentine's Day, doing laundry, getting groceries, etc.

I was in Naples, Florida for work and I have to say that it was really nice to be on the warm and sunny Gulf Coast for a few days! The weather was sunny and warm -- like in the low 80's. Except for some weird sea-fog that rolled in and out over the weekend. That made things a little misty and yucky but I was able to enjoy a long walk on the beach on Saturday morning and again on Sunday afternoon on my way back to the airport. And I worked, too. Seriously! I did. My college at Purdue, Consumer and Family Sciences, held a golf outing on Friday and a brunch on Sunday. Both events went very well.

This is my friend Laura Sloop. We have worked together at both Manchester College and at Purdue. She was also in Naples for the Purdue events and we were able to sit by the pool together and catch-up over dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. Laura definitely got more sun than I did!


I could have watched the pelicans for hours. I walked down the beach from Loudermilk Park to the north when I reached a canal and couldn't go any further. This flock of pelicans were hanging out and fishing for breakfast. They are so cool to watch because they literally nose-dive beak first into the water. Don't they look kind of prehistoric?

On Saturday afternoon, I was able to spend time with two of my great aunts -- Verna lives in Punta Gorda and Nelda is visiting her son Steve and his wife Teri for a few months in Bonita Springs. I had a great time visiting with the four of them on Saturday. Verna and Nelda are my Grandma's two sisters. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with all of them ... we don't get to see each other that often and the older I get, the more I treasure time with family. I have a few memories of Steve and Teri from when I was much younger but it was so great to get to know them now that I'm an adult, too. Visiting with all of them was definitely the highlight of my time in Florida! Verna and Nelda and I called my Grandma while we were visiting. We called my Mom too. Wish we could have a family reunion again! So glad that this visit worked out.



Verna is on the left and Nelda is on the right. I couldn't believe it when Verna told me that she had turned 90 last fall and Nelda will be 88 in April. Hope I have some of their genes!

This is Teri and Steve. Steve is Nelda's oldest son. They moved to Bonita Springs about five years ago from Massachusetts and really love being in the warmth and sunshine of Florida. Thank you for a great lunch!

And here is one last photo to keep you warm on these cold February days. Ha!












Thursday, February 12, 2009

While Wendi's away.......



Okay...the cat isn't playing....he's bored. When Wendi is gone for any length of time, I truly get a chance to remember how boring my bachelorhood was. It is way too quiet around here.

Anyway, Wendi is in Florida for work this weekend which makes for a "less than romantic" valentines day. She did leave me a present this morning and notes I keep finding all over the house. I think it is kinda funny that the present she left me is the book "Wicked" which I am already a long way into and really liking. I guess she knows that if I have a good book to read I won't be out running around.

We have been meaning to put up some photos from last weekend when we went to visit our friends Chris and Sara and their son Tegegn. They are very gracious and understanding with our questions etc. They recently returned from Ethiopia with their son and are really acting as "Trailblazers" for us. I hope they don't get sick of our constant questions. Anyway, their son is adorable and is a very happy little guy. We really enjoyed visiting with them all. Tegegn wasn't shy at all and climbed right up my leg and wanted to play. Seeing him and Chris and Sara and how well they are all doing is a reassurance to Wendi and I that all the hard work and stress we are going through in adoption paperwork will pay off a thousandfold in the end.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

What We've Been Up To

Sorry we haven't posted for awhile! Go to http://www.ailorphoto.blogspot.com to see what we've been doing for the last few weeks.

Today marks one week since our fingerprinting appointment. We're hoping to see our paperwork from USCIS soon -- hopefully early next week!