Friday, October 31, 2008

Halloween Picture Fun!

On halloween, we decided to open the studio up for free photos of kids in their halloween costumes. I set up a fall background and people just stop in, have a quick photo and come back and pick it up later. The kids are great and getting to see all the costumes is a lot of fun. Here is a photo of Wendi on the background. She's a good witch. At least...that's what she says.

Sunday, October 26, 2008

A Quiet Weekend

Mark and I have enjoyed a quiet weekend. Actually, it started out quite busy. This was Homecoming weekend at Purdue which meant a lot of activities for me, beginning on Thursday evening. Everything went really well, for which I am grateful. I work with an awesome staff of women -- we make a great team! Homecoming on the mall on Saturday was super cold. I know that Homecoming is supposed to feel like fall but good grief, I couldn't feel my legs -- or my feet -- or my nose! So I skipped the game and came home to warm up.

On Saturday evening, we hosted our friends Randy and Karla for dinner. Karla is a nurse and she helped us with some of our adoption paperwork. One of the forms we needed to complete is a medical needs form. We needed to go through a check-list of possible medical conditions and decide which ones we'd be open to, which ones we felt we can't handle, and which ones we'd be willing to discuss. It wasn't an easy task and we were glad for Karla's explanations and guidance.

Today, Sunday, we had a lot of fun. We had a bunch of errands that we wanted to do and found ourselves making a stop at Toys 'R Us. It's alot of fun to shop there when you know that a child will be part of your life very soon! We also bought birthday presents for our great niece, Lily, and our nephew, Andrew. Of course, Mark had his share of fun at the store, too! He can't wait to have a child to share toys with. : )

So that was our weekend ... a nice and relaxing weekend. It's been too windy to rake leaves -- oh well! We're just watching them pile up outside. Oh yeah -- I almost forgot! We also discovered that both of our cars will fit into the garage with ease. Yes, it's the little things that bring us excitement.

And so another week is about to begin. We're looking forward to our second home study visit tomorrow evening and to Halloween fun later this week.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Home Study

Mark and I had our first home study visit with our adoption specialist on Monday evening. We really like her! I felt like we learned a lot from our visit with her. She has been to Ethiopia twice and has a lot of knowledge about the culture and life there. We are eager to learn more from her. Mark commented on our way home that each time we meet with our agency, he comes away feeling more hopeful and positive about the adoption process. It would be easy to feel bogged down in paperwork but by doing a little bit each day, we are taking good steps to become parents. And we can't wait! We have two more home study meetings: one more in Indy and one at our home. We're still on track to finish our paperwork by the end of the year. Thanks for continuing to keep us and our future child in your thoughts!

Shout out to North Manchester

Before visiting with Mark's family on Sunday, we got up early and traveled to North Manchester to attend church and have lunch with some of our North Manchester friends. With the high gas prices over the summer, we hadn't been back to visit for quite a while and I was especially excited to see everyone and get a good dose of the Chet. It was also a beautiful morning for a drive, what with the leaves turning shades of orange and red and a light frost on the ground. It was a spectacular sun rise as we drove to the east.

We chose a great Sunday to attend church at the Manchester Church of the Brethren as we got to hear our wonderful friends Debbie, Jenny, Eric, Anne and Steve sing in an ensemble. Bravo! Magnifico! I also appreciated Pastor Karen's sermon about the presence of God.

Lunch was at the Sandwich Cellar, a favorite of ours in North Manchester. Our group literally filled half of the Cellar! I wish that we would have had more time to visit and chat but everyone's lives are full of good things. I was grateful for even the short visit. I think that while I was living in North Manchester, I learned alot about community, parenting, friendship and the ability to be present with others in life. I probably didn't treasure it as much as I should have when I lived there but my friends in North Manchester continue to inspire and influence me.

So here's my shout out to our North Manchester friends! Know that our door is always open for you to visit us in Lafayette. And we continue to be thankful for the warm welcome, hugs, and smiles we receive from you whenever we return to 'Funchester.'

Stuff and More stuff

Okay....so we have been even more busy with our paperwork over the last week or so. We have managed to complete almost all of the info needed by Bethany. We also received our Dossier and have started working on that. My sister is a Notary so we spent part of last Sunday meeting with her, at my parents house, and having her notarize a bunch of forms. I guess we knocked out more than half of the paperwork for the Dossier. I also got a CPA to review my business tax forms and write a business recommendation on my behalf. Being self employed and doing your own accounting can make this process a lot more difficult.

We feel like we are well on our way to getting all the paperwork done and out of the way. It will feel great when we know it is all on its way to Ethiopia.

Also, Wendi posted a photo of me painting "baby Ailor's" room and we thought we should post a photo of the finished look. It doesn't have any furniture yet except for the $1 throw pillow that we got the color scheme from. We think it looks great and fits in nicely with our VERY colorful house.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

More of Wendi


Hello, this is my first attempt at posting to our blog. Wendi has been oveseeing that process. However, in doing so, she seems to omit a lot of photos of herself. Somehow I end up on here a lot and I am usually doing something silly. If I can figure it out...I am going to add an image of wendi and I promise to do more in the future.

On Monday we started doing a little more of the paperwork toward our adoption from Ethiopia. We decided to meet with our financial guy, and get our background checks done at the local police station. Of course we brought the camera along, just to document a positive trip to te police station. You will see the photo of Wendi posing.
I did have to go to the police station four times and I still don't think I have the form correct for our dossier. I will give them a week or so before I go back just so they don't get sick of seeing me.
Hopefully, I will contribute more to the blog once in a while. If nothing else, just to make sure a few images of Wendi end up here too. We keep moving along with our paperwork and our first homestudy is Monday. wish us luck.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Our house


OK ... so I love fall. I am a sucker for pumpkins, mums, brightly colored leaves and generally, all things autumn. Here are a few pictures of our house all decked-out for fall.